What Should My Family Know If I Live Abroad?
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- Written by Sue Berry
- Practical guidance
Living abroad?
Discover the essential information your family should know about your documents, home, healthcare, finances, pets and wishes in an emergency.
The Quick Answer
Your family should know who to contact, where your important information is kept and what you would want them to do if you became seriously ill, lost capacity or died abroad.
Why This Matters
Living abroad means your family may not be familiar with local laws, language, or procedures if something unexpected happens.
Without clear information about your wishes, documents, and contacts, they could face confusion, delays, and stress during an already difficult time.
Making sure they know where to find everything — and what you'd want them to do — brings peace of mind for everyone.
Frequently asked questions
What if my family members live in different countries? Designate one person (perhaps the oldest or most organised family member) as the main contact point. Share your information with them first, and they can help coordinate with other family members as needed. Make sure they know where to find everything and have clear instructions on what to do.
What To Do — Step by Step
Make a list of your key contacts Write down the names and contact details of the people your family should reach out to if something happens to you. Include: your doctor, lawyer, financial advisor, employer, insurance agent, and any other important contacts. Keep this list updated and share it with your family.
Document where your important papers are stored Create a list of where your important documents are kept — whether in a safe deposit box, home safe, lawyer's office, or cloud storage. Include: wills, power of attorney documents, property deeds, bank account information, insurance policies, medical records, and digital asset passwords. Make sure at least one trusted family member knows where to find this information.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
- Assuming your family will know what to do without being told
Your Action Checklist
- Write down your key contacts and where they're located
- Create a document list with locations of all important papers
In Summary
Taking time now to share your information with your family — and recording it in a secure place they can access — is one of the kindest things you can do.
It removes the guesswork and gives your loved ones the clarity they need when they need it most.
Sue’s final thoughts & experiences
A personal note from Sue Berry
The best time to have this conversation with your family is now — while you can explain things clearly and answer their questions. It's not morbid or depressing; it's actually a gift of love and clarity that will comfort everyone, including yourself.